Dating Tips for Men – Knowing Who You Are Is Vital to Your Success With Women

There are a lot of guys who get interested in getting dating advice who feel that their attention should be focused only on figuring out what to say and do to attract a woman. In my opinion, a lot of the time, the thing that they should be most focused in on is figuring out who they are. There is a good reason for that. When you don’t know who you are – you are scattered as far as knowing what kind of women you want to attract, what kind of relationship you want to have, etc. When you DO know who you are, it is a lot easier to figure out what kind of women you want to attract and what kind of relationship that you want to have.

When you start to get good with flirting and interacting with women, you will start to have CHOICE. You no longer have to do what most guys do and settle down with the first woman you can get. You’ll have confidence in knowing that you can raise your standards of who you want to attract and who you want to be with and be able to attract a woman who fits those standards. Most guys will never know what that is like.

However, it all starts with you figuring out who you are.

Until you know that, you’ll do what most guys do when they look for dating advice and that is – believe whatever sounds like it might work and go after women who are easy to get. That’s not always the best thing to do, especially if you do end up looking for a long term relationship. Sometimes the easiest woman to get winds up being the one who causes you the most problems.

The other thing that knowing who you are helps with is impressing women. It’s easier to impress a woman when you know what your good traits are and you know what your bad ones are. It’s easier to work on eliminating those bad traits so that you can make better impressions.

You also get a sense of confidence, real SELF CONFIDENCE when you know who you are and I think we all know that confidence is attractive to women. A healthy amount of self confidence is actually a rare thing for a woman to find in a man, so being able to display that healthy amount of self confidence will help you to do better with women.

Too often, guys end up following bad dating advice, or going after women that they really don’t want, all because they don’t know who they are. When you get to know who you are, you’ll make dating become a much easier and enjoyable experience for yourself.

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